I now have a new title - Research Assistant. We are looking into everything we can re bladder cancer and treatments. He woke up this morning not sure if he wants to have the surgery but also knowing he wants to put the odds on his side - so we are busy researching everything we can about the surgery and possible treatments. We have some time before a decision needs to be made; his bone scan is scheduled for August 14th, and we are waiting for an appointment for the ct-scan. He wants to be around long enough to see our daughter doing well and I want him around much longer than that.
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Oh Sandy, what can I say? Nothing. What a terrible blow. I don't know how old you are, but it feels like you are both way too young to be dealing with this. Do your research. The more educated both of you are the easier it will be to make decisions. Does Fred still work? Retired? Good insurance? Love to you both.
I turned 64 in June and husband will be 71 in November. The doctor says he is a young 70; heart is strong, cholesterol numbers good and great blood pressure - all things in our favor. He's retired and thankfully, good insurance. I'm the optimist, he's the realist but we will get through this.
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